MUSIC = LIFE!

 

 

 

This is my favorite flashmob video ever. It makes me dance and cry every time I watch it. Did you see the babies and little kids? See the smiles on their parents’ faces?

Music=Life.

I want everyone to be able to laugh like that. To dance. To smile with friends and feel safe and to enjoy that all life has to offer. I know how hard it can be if you are a victim of sexual assault, and you don’t know who to turn to. That’s why I’m working so hard to help RAINN. RAINN is the best organization for sexual assault victims in America. They operate an anonymous hotline (and online chat) and they educate people about this crime.

Please donate to RAINN right now. Help sexual assault victims find their joy and strength. Help them become survivors!

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Critique Auction ending soon – time to bid!

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Breaking into publishing today is harder than getting an advanced degree in neurology.

Back in the old days, a writer would submit a novel and, if the editor saw potential, she’d work with the writer thru several drafts until it was good enough to be published.

That doesn’t happen anymore. Sadly.

The big publishers have cut so far back on their staff that editors don’t have time for that kind of early career nurturing. If a manuscript is less than perfect when it comes in, it gets rejected.

Some agents have taken on the role of early editing, but you have to have an agent to get that treatment. A number of former big-publishing-house editors now freelance. They charge between $2,000 and $4,000 to work with new writers.

To raise money for RAINN, I am offering to critique up to a 300-page manuscript. We have set up an auction for this critique on E-bay. Right now (4/10, 4:30pm EST) the bidding is at a paltry $1,007. I know that’s a lot of money, but it is barely half of what you’d pay a freelance editor.

And if you are the winning bid on the RAINN auction, 100% of your bid goes to the charity that helps sexual assault survivors speak up and become survivors.

Plus, it’s a tax-deductible donation to a charity.

EVERYBODY WINS!!!!!!

Think of this as money you are spending on professional development. Tuition. Dues. Think of it as a life-saving contribution to the best charity in America, because it is. Call your family and your friends – everyone who is supporting you as you reach for your writing dream – and ask them to help pay for this opportunity.

Bid now! Bid often! The auction ends at 6:30pm, EST, Thursday, April 11, 2013, aka TOMORROW!

PS – If you really don’t have the money to bid on this, please contribute $10. Those smaller contributions are just as important  because they give one more victim of sexual assault much-needed support and hope. Thank you!

Happy Birthday Kristen Stewart! And Thanks!

 

 

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Happy Birthday, Kristen Stewart!!

Celebrate Kristen’s birthday by making a $10 donation in her honor to RAINN.

 

When she was only 13 years old Kristen, played Melinda in the Showtime/Lifetime film version of SPEAK. Here’s the movie trailer.

Say Happy Birthday To Kristen by making a $10 donation in her honor to RAINN.

 

She recorded a PSA for RAINN that ran after the movie and brought in a record number of calls from sexual assault survivors to the hotline.

 Say Happy Birthday To Kristen by making a $10 donation in her honor to RAINN.

 

She continues to reach out to survivors, as in this new PSA about safety on college campuses.

Say Happy Birthday To Kristen by making a $10 donation in her honor to RAINN.

At the end of this fundraiser (the end of April) I’ll send her a thank you note and tell her how much her fans contributed. RAINN helps victims speak up and turn into survivors. When you make your $10 donation, be sure to include “In honor of Kristen Stewart” in the text box labeled “Message to RAINN” at the bottom of the page.  Please help us make our world safe for everyone.

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Thanks!

What Do We Say To Our Sons About Rape?

 

Since SPEAK was published in 1999, I’ve had countless conversations about rape. I’ve talked to survivors and rapists, counselors, police, teachers, librarians, and teenagers… lots of teenagers.

But I’ve rarely talked with the parents of boys about this.

Why is that?

I suspect it’s because most people are decent and they cannot imagine their boy committing rape. It’s easier (and emotionally safer) to think of rapists as that stranger waiting in the bushes with a gun.

They are wrong.

A whooping 73% of sexual assaults are committed by someone that the victim knows.

44% of sexual assault victims are under age 18. 

If parents shy away from talking to their sons about rape, they are failing their sons.

I’ve never met a teenage boy who knew that when a girl is under the influence of alcohol or drugs she is not capable of giving informed consent to sexual activity. Teaching our sons about what sexual assault is and all of the reasons they shouldn’t do it makes the world a safer place for everyone.

(I talked about this more in this article.)

If you think it’s awkward talking to your son about this at the kitchen table, imagine how much harder it would be if he were in jail.

Here is how one mother started the conversation with her son about consent and rape. And  the editors of The Good Men Project wrote a guide to teaching kids of all ages about consent.

(Do you have other resources to share?)

Talk to your boys. Talk to your whole family. And then please make a $10 donation to RAINN, the best organization for victims of sexual assault. RAINN helps victims turn into survivors.

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When we speak up, we make the world a better place.